5 Must-Do Moving Tips for Parents
So, the old house is sold and the new one has been purchased. Or maybe you are still in the process of doing one or the other but have solidified your decision to move homes. Either way, CONGRATULATIONS! Both of these instances are a major victory for any household and a big step toward the next chapter in your lives.
However, the journey is not yet complete until you make the move to your new home. If you have children, this part can be particularly challenging. That’s why we’ve listed these five practical moving tips for parents.
1. Have the conversation
The first thing you want to do is tell your children that you are moving. If you have gone through the process of getting a new home, they may already know. But if not, tell them what’s going on as soon as possible so that they will feel included.
Give them an opportunity to ask questions, and give them as many details as necessary for their age. Also, you may need to walk them through the emotions they are feeling and ensure them that everything will be okay even though you’re going through such a big change.
2. Consider movers
Early in the moving process, think about whether to hire movers. Yes, it adds to the costs, but it can also take a lot of stress out of an already stressful situation. Do online research, read reviews of various moving companies, and try to meet several movers in person to discuss their processes.
How much you can expect to pay depends on whether it’s a local or long-distance move, the total weight of the items being moved, and even the day of the week you move, among other things.
3. Create an open house checklist
If your home is on the market (or you’re planning to put it on the market), one thing that will help the selling process go more smoothly is to write out a checklist for any tasks that need to be completed before showing your home to potential buyers. That way, you and your kids will know exactly what to do on short notice. Boosting the lighting, putting away valuables, neutralizing odors, and getting the pets out of the house are a few tasks you might consider for your list.
4. Make a plan for moving week
The last week before your move should be as stress-free as possible, and the only way to achieve that is to make a plan with your kids. Make sure everyone is on the same page when it comes to what you’re eating, when and how you’re packing, how you’ll keep the home clean, and how each person will be traveling to the new home.
5. Include your kids
Most children deal with relocating much better when they feel included in the process. Assign your kids age-appropriate cleaning tasks, even if it takes you a little longer to do things. Allow your kids to choose which items to keep when you’re decluttering, as well as what to pack away and what to take with them on the road. And ask their opinions on certain decisions to let them know that they have a say in the matter.
Moving can be difficult for anyone, but it’s notoriously challenging for parents. Remember to talk to your kids about the move as soon as you can, and think about hiring a moving service to relieve you of some of the burdens. Come up with a checklist of tasks to tackle before an open house, and detail a plan for moving week. Finally, make sure your kids feel included throughout the entire process, and things will go much more smoothly!
If you have any questions about moving into a new home or for advice on moving, contact us today! We are your Central Florida real estate experts!
Written for Waypointe Realty courtesy of Alexis Hall of singleparent.info